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Ariana Vargas

Your Partner in Healing, Intimacy, and Self-Discovery

Ariana is a Clinical Psychologist and Sexologist dedicated to transforming how you experience intimacy. Driven by a humanistic and mindfulness-based approach, she creates a safe, non-judgmental space where you can move away from pressure and "performance" to rediscover authentic pleasure. Whether you are navigating sexual difficulties, anxiety, or identity questions, Ariana combines evidence-based psychology with sex education to help you rebuild your confidence and emotional well-being.

Specializes In: Sexual Difficulties (ED, Pain, Low Desire), Performance Anxiety, LGBTQ+ Support, and Mindfulness.

Location: France

Worldwide Qualification: Sex Counsellor

Local Qualification: Registered Clinical Psychologist in Ecuador

Languages: She provides services in both English and Spanish.

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A Sanctuary for Honest Conversation

Ariana believes that true healing begins with safety. Her practice is founded on deep empathy and total non-judgment, offering you a secure environment to explore sensitive topics without shame. In this space, you are free to let go of pressure and "performance," allowing you to reconnect with your authentic self and discover a path toward genuine well-being.

Your Path to Healing & Understanding

Sessions with Ariana are designed to be a collaboration rooted in trust. Each 50-to-60-minute session is a safe haven where you can explore your experiences without the fear of judgment. Working from a humanistic perspective, she balances deep emotional exploration with practical, evidence-based tools to help you understand your body and mind.

Your First Session: The initial meeting is an invitation to share your story at your own pace. Ariana asks gentle, open-ended questions to understand your unique situation while ensuring you feel respected and safe. It is a low-pressure environment to discuss what brought you to therapy and what you hope to change.

Tailored Ongoing Support: Ongoing sessions evolve based on your specific needs. They typically begin with a check-in on your progress and may include emotional processing, sex education to understand your body better, or mindfulness strategies to reduce anxiety. The pace is always tailored to you, ensuring the space feels grounded.

Collaborative Goal Setting: 
You are an active participant in your healing. Goals are set together—whether they are emotional, relational, or sexual—and remain flexible as you grow. The focus often shifts from “performance” to “pleasure,” helping you define success in a way that aligns with your personal values.

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Begin Your Journey to Authentic Connection

You deserve to experience intimacy without anxiety or shame. If you are ready to leave the pressure of "performance" behind and embrace a life of confidence and pleasure, I am here to walk beside you and support you every step of the way.

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Nurture Your Nature

Our sexual instinct is a natural and powerful part of who we are. Helping ourselves means learning to understand, accept, and care for this instinct, empowering us to live more fully and authentically.

Reserve Your Time for Growth

Areas of Expertise

Ariana’s practice is built on the belief that sexual health is a fundamental human right. She specializes in helping individuals understand the root causes of their difficulties—whether physiological, emotional, or relational. By integrating sex education with emotional regulation and mindfulness, she helps clients shift from a mindset of "performance" and anxiety to one of presence and pleasure, reducing shame and building lasting confidence.

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Overcoming Sexual Difficulties

Specialized support for challenges such as erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, low desire, and genito-pelvic pain. Ariana helps you identify the performance anxiety behind these issues and develop relaxation techniques to rebuild a compassionate relationship with your body.

From "Performance" to Pleasure

Many clients feel pressured to meet unrealistic expectations. We work to challenge these beliefs and silence self-criticism. Using mindfulness tools, you will learn to ground yourself in the present moment, prioritizing authentic enjoyment over the need to "perform."

Inclusive Sex Education

Shame often stems from a lack of knowledge. Ariana provides evidence-based education on anatomy, arousal patterns, and consent. This empowers you to better understand your sexual responses and make informed, pleasure-affirming choices.

LGBTQ+ & Identity Support

A fully affirming, safe space for the LGBTQ+ community and individuals exploring their identity. Whether you are navigating questions of orientation, boundaries, or self-acceptance, this is a judgment-free zone to explore who you are.

Anxiety & Emotional Regulation

Using mindfulness-based management, we address the stress, shame, and disconnection that often hinder intimacy. This work builds emotional resilience, helping you reconnect with your physical sensations and reduce the anxiety linked to sexual struggles.

Flexible Pathways for Your Growth

Structured Programs & Ongoing Support

Ariana offers flexible options to suit your unique journey, including standard ongoing therapy and a comprehensive 6-Session Program for those seeking a defined, goal-oriented structure. Whether you are an individual or a couple, her online practice provides an accessible, bilingual (English & Spanish) space to reclaim your sexual health as a fundamental right. Take the step today to move past avoidance and anxiety towards a life of authentic connection and empowerment.

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Where Change Begins
Program for Anxiety-Related Sexual Dysfunctions ( 6-Session / 20% Discount )

Program for Anxiety-Related Sexual Dysfunctions ( 6-Session / 20% Discount )

Languages English and Spanish Sessions 6 Duration 60

Take advantage of a 20% discount on our 6-session therapeutic package, designed for individuals whose sexual difficulties are driven by anxiety. This structured weekly program integrates Mindfulness and CBT to break cycles of performance pressure, reduce self-monitoring, and restore confidence in your sexuality. Across six focused sessions, you will learn practical strategies to regulate your nervous system and restructure unhelpful thoughts. The goal is to equip you with lasting tools to manage challenges, improve intimacy, and build a calmer, more connected sexual experience.

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Worldwide Expertise
Sex counsellor
Local Expertise
Registered Clinical Psychologist in Ecuador
€288 For 6 sessions
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Reclaim & Heal: 8-Session Sexual Trauma Recovery Program

Reclaim & Heal: 8-Session Sexual Trauma Recovery Program

Languages English and Spanish Sessions 8 Duration 60

Embark on an 8-week journey to restore safety, reconnect with your body, and reclaim your sexuality. This structured, trauma-informed program supports your recovery with empowerment and client-led pacing, creating a secure foundation for healing from sexual trauma. We prioritize a supportive space where you can progress comfortably and confidently. Using proven methods like CBT and somatic awareness, you will learn to regulate your nervous system and re-establish a safe mind-body connection. Gain practical skills for emotional stability and healthy boundaries, concluding with a personalized roadmap for your long-term recovery and personal empowerment.

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Worldwide Expertise
Sex counsellor
Local Expertise
Registered Clinical Psychologist in Ecuador
€384 For 8 sessions
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Recovery & Balance: 6-Session Program for Compulsive Sexual Behavior

Recovery & Balance: 6-Session Program for Compulsive Sexual Behavior

Languages English and Spanish Sessions 6 Duration 60

A six-session program (60 minutes weekly) designed to help individuals and couples address compulsive sexual behavior and rebuild connection. Combining mindfulness and CBT techniques, it supports greater self-awareness, healthier patterns, and improved communication. Through a mix of individual and couple sessions, participants gain practical tools to restore intimacy, strengthen emotional safety, and create lasting change.

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Worldwide Expertise
Sex counsellor
Local Expertise
Registered Clinical Psychologist in Ecuador
€288 For 6 sessions
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Rediscover Intimacy & Connection – A 6-Session Couples Journey

Rediscover Intimacy & Connection – A 6-Session Couples Journey

Languages English and Spanish Sessions 6 Duration 60

Rediscover Intimacy & Connection is a 6-week structured program for couples aiming to strengthen communication and restore intimacy. Integrating Mindfulness and CBT, we create a supportive space to identify patterns causing emotional distance and rediscover shared pleasure. This journey is designed to deepen your connection. Through a unique mix of individual and couple sessions, you'll gain practical tools to rebuild emotional safety. We focus on embodied practices to enhance mutual awareness and provide a clear plan to maintain your progress, empowering you to move forward with confidence and a renewed bond.

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Worldwide Expertise
Sex counsellor
Local Expertise
Registered Clinical Psychologist in Ecuador
€288 For 6 sessions
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The Standard Single Session

The Standard Single Session

Languages English and Spanish Sessions 1 Duration 60

Gain clarity and move forward with confidence in this focused one-on-one session. Designed to address your emotional, relational, or intimacy challenges, this consultation provides expert psychological insight and actionable strategies tailored to your unique situation, helping you understand the root of your concerns. You will leave with practical tools for daily life and a clear path forward. Sessions are led by a licensed Clinical Psychologist & Sexologist (Ecuador) and Sex Counsellor (Worldwide), ensuring structured advice for individuals or couples seeking real progress.

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Worldwide Expertise
Sex counsellor
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Registered Clinical Psychologist in Ecuador
€60 For 1 session
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Thrive Together: 4-Session LGBTQ+ Parenting Educational Program

Thrive Together: 4-Session LGBTQ+ Parenting Educational Program

Languages English and Spanish Sessions 4 Duration 60

Empower your family with Thrive Together an affirming, research-informed program for LGBTQ+ parents. Across four weekly sessions, you will gain practical guidance and emotional support to navigate unique challenges, focusing on strengthening communication, building resilience, and fostering healthy identity development. Learn evidence-based strategies to create emotional safety and confidently navigate social systems. Through compassionate guidance and tailored exercises, you’ll build the skills to create a safe, supportive, and thriving family environment, strengthening your confidence for years to come.

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Worldwide Expertise
Sex counsellor
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Registered Clinical Psychologist in Ecuador
€240 For 4 sessions
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