In long-term relationships, it is common for emotional distance, busy schedules, or unresolved resentment to create a sense of disconnection. Key to Pleasure is a deep-dive therapeutic journey designed to rebuild the emotional, embodied, and cognitive foundations of your relationship. This isn't just about techniques; it’s about creating a sustainable culture of intimacy and desire.
A. Programme Logistics & Exceptional Value
This 10-session package is structured to allow for deep repair and lasting behavioral change.
B. The Three-Phase Framework
Our roadmap moves through the three pillars of a thriving relationship:
Phase 1: The Heart (Emotional Safety) – Rebuilding trust and restoring meaningful dialogue. We move from defensiveness to emotional openness.
Phase 2: The Body (Desire & Connection) – Addressing desire discrepancies and physical disconnection. We shift from "goal-oriented" sex to presence-based intimacy.
Phase 3: The Mind (Sustainability) – Creating intentional rituals and a shared language to ensure intimacy remains resilient amidst a busy life.
C. Your 10-Session Roadmap
| Sessions | Focus Area | Key Objectives |
| 1 – 3 | Relational Repair | Identifying reactivity cycles, addressing communication blocks, and restoring empathy. |
| 4 – 7 | Erotic Connection | Understanding nervous system regulation, reducing performance pressure, and exploring touch/pacing. |
| 8 – 10 | Sustainable Intimacy | Co-designing personalized Pleasure Rituals and integrating intimacy into daily life as a core value. |
D. Expected Outcomes
By the end of this journey, you and your partner can expect to:
Communicate with Safety: Express needs and boundaries without triggering conflict or shutdown.
Navigate Desire: Address "mismatched desire" with compassion and curiosity rather than frustration.
Rebuild Trust: Restore the emotional closeness and attunement necessary for physical intimacy.
Sustainable Rituals: Leave with a concrete, long-term roadmap for maintaining your erotic connection.
E. Expert Support & Materials
This programme is
delivered by Krish Phua, a Board-Certified Sexologist and
Registered Counsellor and
Psychotherapist.
To support your growth between sessions, you will receive:
PDF Guide: Intimacy Vocabulary and Desire Mapping.
Structured "Home-Play": Practical exercises to try in the privacy of your own home.
Regulation Tools: Concrete methods for emotional and nervous system regulation.
F. Important Policies
- Eligibility: Inclusive of all genders, orientations, and
relationship structures (including non-monogamy/polyamory) (18+). All partners
should commit to consistent
attendance.
- Documentation: An Intake Form
and Informed Consent must be signed by both partners and returned
before the first session.
- Cancellation: 24-hour notice is
required to reschedule. No-shows are charged at 100%.
- Refunds (Retained Value Rule): If you choose to
discontinue, used sessions are charged at the standard €190 single-session
rate. (Example: If you use 2 sessions and request a refund, you
receive €1,140 back: €1,520 - €380).
