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Jackelyne Borges

A Systemic Approach to Healing Your Relational World

As a Psychologist, my journey began with a powerful observation: that our pain often exists within a "relational web". My work is founded on Systemic Therapy, an approach that moves beyond individual symptoms to help you see and change the entire system you are part of. With over a decade of experience, I provide a safe, empathetic space to guide clients—especially women—in recognizing the patterns holding them back, understanding their origins, and building a life of true well-being and healthier connections.

Specializations: Systemic Therapy, Relationship & Couples Therapy, Trauma & PTSD

Location: Venlo, Neatherlands

Locally qualified as: Licensed Psychologist (Brazilian Psychology Board #18/01425)

Qualified Worldwide as: Sex counsellor & Relationship Specialist

A Healthier Connection Is Possible

Connect with Jackelyne

As a Systemic Therapist, I see your pain as part of a larger "relational web". My mission is to do more than just listen; it's to help you recognize the patterns holding you back and empower you with the tools to build a life of deeper self-awareness and true well-being. If you're ready to build healthier connections, I'm here to guide you.

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"Our pain exists not in isolation but within a relational web."

The Systemic Approach

Healing the Whole System, Not Just the Symptom

My work is grounded in Systemic Therapy, an approach based on the powerful understanding that our pain often exists within a "relational web". I move beyond treating individual symptoms to help you see the entire system you are part of—your family, your relationships, and your community. My mission is to guide you in recognizing the unhealthy patterns that hold you back, understanding their origins, and empowering you with the tools to build a life of deeper self-awareness and healthier connections.

I combine therapeutic coaching with NLP and hypnosis to identify and reframe deep-seated limiting beliefs. Simultaneously, I use somatic techniques, polyvagal theory, and inner child work to regulate your nervous system and heal attachment wounds. This holistic method allows me to perceive underlying patterns and target root causes, ensuring sustainable transformation rather than just managing symptoms.

Jackelyne Borges

- Licensed Psychologist & Systemic Therapist
Who

I Help and How

My work is dedicated to helping people see their pain as part of a "relational web". I specialize in guiding adult clients, especially women, through personal and relational challenges using an ethic-based, empathetic, and respectful Systemic approach. My goal is to empower you to regain control of your life.

I help with

Healing Trauma, Stress & Anger

My professional journey began in 2011, providing mental health support to law enforcement officers. This gave me extensive experience in helping clients navigate post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), work-related stress, anger management, grief, and domestic violence. I use this trauma-informed lens to help you safely process personal vulnerabilities and regain control of your life.

I help with

Navigating Relationship & Marital Crises

I provide expert support for individuals and couples facing unexpected and difficult changes in their relationships. My systemic training offers a deep understanding of issues like infidelity, violence in relationships, couple's sexuality, and gender issues. We work to understand the full dynamic, not just the symptoms, to help you find a path to a healthier connection.

I help with

Empowering Women Through Personal Struggles

I typically work with adult women facing personal struggles, psychological distress, or family-related challenges. In our sessions, I provide an empathetic space to understand your "relational web" and identify unhealthy patterns. My goal is to empower you with self-awareness and the tools to make beneficial decisions for yourself and your loved ones.

Let's connect. Book a consultation to explore how I can support you.

Navigating Your Relational Web

My process is a collaborative, ethics-based journey grounded in Systemic Therapy. I am here to do more than just listen; I am here to help you see the entire system you are part of. Our work requires mutual trust, commitment, and honesty, creating a safe space where we can untangle the patterns holding you back and empower you to regain control of your life.

1. Building a Safe & Honest Foundation

Our therapeutic relationship is paramount. Before we can explore your "relational web," we must build a secure space based on mutual trust, commitment, and honesty. My practice is built on professional conduct and deep respect for your individuality, ensuring you feel safe to explore your most personal challenges.

2. The Systemic Lens: Seeing the Whole Picture

As a Systemic Therapist, I help you move beyond just your individual symptoms. We will explore the complex "relational web" of your family, partnerships, and community to identify the unhealthy patterns and dynamics that may be holding you back. This includes a deep understanding of couple's sexuality, gender issues, and infidelity.

3. A Trauma-Informed Perspective

My 13+ years of experience include supporting clients through deep personal vulnerabilities, domestic violence, PTSD, and trauma. I bring this trauma-informed lens to our work, allowing us to safely navigate and understand the origins of your pain and provide you with effective tools to manage triggers, stress, and anger.

4. The Goal: Empowerment & Lasting Change

My ultimate mission is to empower you to manage your own life. The most rewarding part of our work is seeing you regain control and make beneficial, life-affirming decisions for yourself and your loved ones. This journey is about building your self-awareness so you can create healthier connections and true well-being.
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Therapy Services

My Therapeutic Services

My holistic approach integrates emotional well-being, relational health, and sexual vitality. I offer tailored support for individuals and couples seeking to navigate challenges, build self-love, improve intimacy, or manage life transitions like menopause. We focus on addressing root causes to help you develop lasting emotional intelligence and confidence.

Areas of Practice

Systemic Therapy for Individuals: This is a confidential, one-on-one space to explore the origins of your unhealthy patterns, process personal vulnerabilities, and heal from past traumas or grief. We work together to help you regain control and make beneficial decisions for your life.

Systemic Therapy for Couples: I offer a specialized service for couples navigating difficult challenges. My advanced training provides a deep, non-judgmental understanding of the dynamics of couple's sexuality, gender issues, violence in relationships, and infidelity. We work to understand the entire relational system, not just the symptoms, to build healthier connections.

Mental Health in Organizations: Drawing on my specialized training from the Albert Einstein Israeli Institute and my extensive experience with law enforcement, I provide support for work-related stress, PTSD, and anger management. This service is designed to help teams and individuals manage job-related psychological challenges.

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