Relationship and Intimacy Coach

Miren Itxaso Otsoa

So much of how we feel and relate to others is shaped by forces we can’t easily see: the unspoken rules of our family history, the subtle pressures of cultural expectations, and the echoes of past trauma. As a consultant specializing in these very dynamics—gender, relational patterns, and transgenerational healing—I offer a dedicated space to map out these influences. We will work together to illuminate the patterns holding you back, providing you with the clarity and tools to consciously choose your path forward toward deeper connections and empowered well-being.

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1. Individual Consultation: A Space for Your Personal Journey

These confidential one-on-one sessions are dedicated entirely to you and your story. We'll explore your personal challenges—whether they involve anxiety, emotional stagnation, past trauma, or relational difficulties—to uncover deep insights and develop practical tools for your empowerment and lasting well-being.

3. Group Sessions & Workshops: Collective Growth & Learning

There is immense power in community. This offering includes both thematic support circles for shared healing and dynamic psychoeducational workshops for interactive learning. Whether in a support group or a workshop on topics like gender or empowerment, these spaces are designed to foster connection, mutual support, and collective growth.

2. Couples Guidance: Strengthening Your Connection

Designed for couples seeking to navigate challenges and deepen their bond. In these sessions, we work together to improve communication, resolve conflicts, and explore new approaches to intimacy. This is a supportive space to address the effects of routine and external pressures, and to consciously build a more resilient and connected partnership.

4. Focused Support Packages: Short-Term, Goal-Oriented Guidance

For those seeking support for a specific challenge or during a period of transition, these packages offer a structured path forward. From an introductory package to establish clear goals to short-term support focused on a single issue, we can create a tailored plan designed for tangible progress in a defined timeframe.

My Services

Support Tailored to Your Needs

Every person’s journey toward healing and empowerment is unique. That’s why I offer a range of services designed to meet you where you are. Whether you’re seeking confidential one-on-one guidance, support for your relationship, or the shared energy of a group setting, each offering is a dedicated space for exploration, learning, and growth. Explore the options below to find the path that best suits your needs.

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Gender, Sexuality, and Relational Dynamics

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My Philosophy & Journey

I believe that personal healing and social awareness are deeply intertwined. We cannot fully understand our personal struggles without also understanding the cultural and relational systems we live in. My work is dedicated to bridging that gap—helping you navigate your personal challenges while staying grounded in a wider perspective of gender, health, and social dynamics.

My path to this work began with a degree in Political Science and a specialization in Gender and Health, which was later deepened by a Master’s in Interdisciplinary Intervention in Gender-Based Violence. This academic and professional journey has provided me with a unique, intersectional lens to support a wide variety of experiences. It informs every aspect of my practice, from addressing transgenerational patterns to incorporating mind-body tools like laughter therapy, all with the ultimate goal of empowering you to build a more authentic and resilient life.

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My clients Experience

Deeper Connections, Conscious Well-being

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Reconnecting the Long-Term Couple

A couple in their late 40s sought guidance feeling more like roommates than partners after two decades together. The pressures of their careers and family life had created a deep sense of disconnection, and their intimacy had become a source of anxiety rather than joy. In our sessions, we worked to rebuild their communication, moving beyond daily logistics to explore the unspoken cultural and gender expectations that had shaped their roles. By redefining intimacy and introducing new ways to connect emotionally, they were given a supportive space to find their way back to each other. This process allowed them to break free from routine, rediscover each other as individuals, and rekindle a deeper, more mature partnership built on renewed understanding and affection.

 

Creating a Community of Support

A group of close female friends wanted to deepen their bond but struggled to talk openly about sensitive topics like sexual health and body image due to social stigma. To help them, I facilitated a series of private group sessions designed to create a structured and safe environment for these exact conversations. Using my expertise as an Equality Agent, we worked to destigmatize their concerns and build a shared language for mutual support. The interactive sessions allowed them to share their experiences and build a stronger collective voice, transforming their friendship into a powerful and lasting support network where they felt empowered to continue supporting each other in an authentic and meaningful way.

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Breaking a Generational Cycle

A woman in her early 30s came to me feeling trapped in a recurring cycle of anxiety and unsatisfying relationships, noticing she was drawn to emotionally unavailable partners—a pattern that mirrored her parents' dynamic. Through our individual consultations, we gently mapped out the transgenerational patterns of emotional abandonment in her family that were influencing her present. The work focused on emotional identification and body-mind awareness, allowing her to feel more grounded in her own self-worth. This newfound clarity was empowering; she learned to set firm boundaries, recognize red flags earlier, and invest in relationships that were reciprocal and nourishing, ultimately gaining a profound sense of agency over her life.

Our Process

Your Path to Getting Started

Embarking on a journey of self-discovery and healing is a significant step, and my process is designed to be as clear and supportive as possible. It begins with a simple, confidential consultation where we discuss your needs and goals, ensuring my approach is the right fit for you. From there, we work collaboratively to create a flexible plan—whether it's a short-term package focused on a specific issue or ongoing sessions for deeper exploration. Each meeting is a dedicated space for insightful conversation and practical tool-building, always moving at a pace that honors your unique process and empowers you to integrate what you learn into your daily life.

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Ready to Take the Next Step?

Taking the first step is often the most courageous one. If you're ready to gain clarity, understand the patterns shaping your life, and build a more empowered future, I invite you to connect. I offer a confidential, non-judgmental space to explore if my approach is the right fit for you. Let's begin the conversation.

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Special Focus

Laughter Therapy (Risoterapia)

One of the unique tools I integrate into my practice is Laughter Therapy (Risoterapia), a powerful method for connecting the mind and body. It's more than just humor; it's a guided practice designed to release emotional stagnation, reduce the physical symptoms of stress and depression, and help you reconnect with your natural sense of joy and spontaneity. This approach is particularly effective for those feeling stuck, anxious, or disconnected, offering a path to renewed vitality.
Miren Itxaso Otsoa
Relationship and Intimacy Coach
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