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Nick Fernandes

Transforming Life into a Laboratory for Growth & Self-Discovery

Nick is a clinician, researcher, and strategic thinker who views therapy as a collaborative "laboratory" for profound self-discovery. With a PhD in Criminal Psychology and over 15 years of leadership in mental health and education, he moves beyond traditional talk therapy to help you analyze your life’s architecture. Combining classical psychoanalysis, mindfulness, and human value systems (Axiology), Nick guides individuals and couples to deconstruct emotional barriers, understand their internal drives, and build actionable toolkits for a fulfilling, intentional life.

Specializes In: Sexuality & Relationships, Identity & Value Systems, Trauma, Anxiety, and Executive Psychological Coaching.

Location: Portugal

Local Qualification: Doctor of Criminal Psychology (PhD) & Psychoanalytic Expert & Sex Expert

Worldwide Qualification: Forensic Psychological Consultant & Researcher & Sex Expert

Speciality: Psychoanalytic Coaching, Behavioral Profiling, Conflict Resolution, and Executive Leadership Strategy.

A Foundation of Deep Understanding

Nick’s practice is grounded in a profound commitment to understanding the complexities of the human mind. Drawing from an extensive academic background—including a PhD in Criminal Psychology and advanced training in values-based coaching—he creates a safe, open space for true exploration. Rather than just analyzing problems, he partners with you to build a practical "toolkit" for life. Clients gain clarity on their values, learn to set healthy boundaries, and develop the emotional resilience needed to live a more fulfilling and authentic life.

Your Journey in the Therapy Lab

Nick views therapy as a collaborative laboratory—a safe, reflective space where you can experiment with new ways of thinking and being. His process is not just about venting; it is about actively constructing a "toolkit" for life. Through a client-led, multi-modal approach, you will work together to turn insights into practical changes.

Your Initial Consultation: The first meeting is dedicated to building a connection and understanding your unique context. We will explore where you currently are in your process of healing and growth, identifying the major issues at play. This session lays the foundation for a plan that is tailored specifically to your needs.

Strategic Goal Setting: Nick utilizes a distinct backward-design method for setting goals. Together, you will define exactly what “success” looks like for you, establishing clear markers of progress. By working backwards from that end goal to your present day, you create a structured and achievable path forward.

The “Lab” Experience: Ongoing sessions typically begin with a recap of your week to address immediate issues, then move into deep exploration. Expect an interactive environment filled with questions that challenge you to reflect. This is where the work happens: exploring the states of your mind and building the psychological tools you need to navigate them.

Ready to Design a Life of Purpose?

If you are ready to gain deep self-understanding and build the practical tools for a fulfilling life, I am here to guide you through that discovery.

Nurture Your Nature

Our sexual instinct is a natural and powerful part of who we are. Helping ourselves means learning to understand, accept, and care for this instinct, empowering us to live more fully and authentically.

Areas of Expertise

Nick brings a rare depth of knowledge to his practice, combining his clinical background with extensive experience in leadership and human development. Whether you are navigating personal identity issues, complex relationship dynamics, or professional challenges, his approach is designed to help you find clarity. He integrates evidence-based techniques (like CBT and Axiology) with a compassionate, client-centered focus, ensuring that you don't just resolve symptoms, but build a stronger, more authentic foundation for your future.

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Sexuality & Gender Identity

A supportive, knowledgeable space for individuals across the spectrum (including LGBT and Trans clients) to explore their identity and sexuality. Nick provides specialized sex therapy to help you understand your desires, overcome blocks, and live an authentic life free from shame or confusion.

Relationships & Boundaries

Whether for couples or individuals, Nick helps navigate the complexities of modern relationships. He assists in defining clear boundaries, improving communication, and managing difficult transitions—such as his work helping couples successfully navigate the shift from closed to open relationship structures.

Trauma & Emotional Healing

With advanced certification in Trauma-Informed Care, Nick understands how deep emotional wounds affect the mind and body. He provides a safe, steady environment to process past pain, helping you rebuild your sense of safety and reclaim your voice within your family and community.

Values & Purpose (Axiology)

Drawing on his specialized training in Axiology (the study of values), Nick helps clients who feel lost or conflicted to rediscover their "why." By analyzing your internal value system, he guides you to align your daily life and decisions with your true purpose, leading to greater fulfillment and direction.

Anxiety & Resilience

Using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and mindfulness strategies, Nick helps you dismantle the cycles of anxiety and depression. You will work together to identify maladaptive thought patterns and build a practical "toolkit" to manage stress and regulate your emotions effectively.

A Holistic Partner for Your Growth

Integrating Science Values Compassion

Nick’s multidisciplinary background—spanning clinical psychology, executive leadership, and social work across continents—ensures that he sees the “whole picture” of who you are. Whether you are seeking individual therapy to heal trauma, couples counseling to navigate complex boundaries, or sex therapy to claim your identity, he brings a culturally aware and deeply analytical perspective. His ultimate goal is to help you transcend limitations, aligning your personal values with your actions so you can live a life of intention, honesty, and profound fulfillment.

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