Certified Sexologist & Psychologist

Elisa Cariolato

Elisa creates a therapeutic space designed to help you rediscover connection, clarity, and authentic pleasure. As a licensed psychologist in Italy and a certified sexologist, she combines systemic-relational therapy with a deep sensitivity to the body’s language. Her approach is warm, welcoming, and judgment-free, inviting every part of you to be present. Whether you are navigating sexual difficulties, relationship distance, or life transitions, Elisa guides you to dissolve emotional blocks and build a life grounded in presence and inner coherence.

Location: Italy

Specializes In: Female & Male Sexuality, Couples & Intimacy, Sexual Dysfunctions, Identity & Personal Growth, Parenthood & Family Dynamics.

Worldwide Qualification: Sex Expert & Intimacy Consultant

Italy: Licensed Clinical Psychologist & Sexologist (Register A - Veneto Region).

 

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1. Female Sexuality: Navigating Change & Pleasure

I provide dedicated support for women moving through life’s transitional phases, such as postpartum, perimenopause, and menopause. I help you address challenges related to pain, changes in desire, and body image, guiding you to reconnect with your body and rediscover a sense of pleasure and ownership over your sexuality.

3. Couples & Intimacy: Restoring the Bond

When emotional distance, mismatched desire, or jealousy disrupt your relationship, I help you and your partner find your way back to each other. Through improved communication and emotional regulation, I guide couples to break negative relational cycles and cultivate a deeper, more resilient intimacy.

2. Male Sexuality: Confidence & Reconnection

For men facing challenges like performance anxiety, erectile difficulties, or early/delayed ejaculation, I offer a non-judgmental space to restore confidence. Our work focuses on overcoming the pressure to perform, managing andropause, and rebuilding a natural, stress-free connection with sensuality and self-esteem.

4. Identity & Personal Growth: Authenticity & Balance

Beyond sexuality, I support you in navigating anxiety, trauma, and self-esteem issues. Whether exploring gender identity or healing attachment wounds, my goal is to help you feel truly "at home" within yourself, fostering the emotional stability needed for healthy relationships.

My Services

Comprehensive Support for Intimacy & Self

I support individuals and couples through a wide range of themes related to emotional health, relationships, and sexuality. My integrated approach combines systemic therapy with body awareness, creating a safe path for us to explore deep personal challenges and rediscover your authentic connection.

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Specialist in

Integrated Mind-Body & Relationship Support

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My Philosophy & Journey

I chose this path because I deeply believe that sexuality is the language of both the body and the soul; when this language is blocked, every part of our well-being is affected. My work is driven by the conviction that transformation doesn't arise from perfection, but from the courage to look within with kindness. For me, therapy is not just about fixing what is "broken"—it is a privilege to support you in reconnecting with your own aliveness, inner coherence, and presence. I am here to offer you a safe, non-judgmental space where we can rebuild the bridge between your mind and body, helping you create a life that feels truly your own.

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A.T.

Elisa is exceptionally professional, compassionate, and insightful. Each session left me feeling lighter and more empowered. I couldn’t have asked for better support.
My clients Experience

Deeper Connections, Conscious Well-being

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Finding Grounding in Emotional Chaos

I worked with a client navigating a very challenging period who felt overwhelmed and disconnected. By offering deep empathy and a space to be truly heard, we moved from confusion to clarity. Through our sessions, I helped them process their emotions until they felt "grounded" and "understood" again. The result was a profound sense of relief, leaving them feeling lighter and ready to face their life with renewed emotional stability.

Building Confidence Through Routine

One of my clients came to me needing more than just a listening ear—they needed concrete change. We worked together to create a calm, structured approach that balanced empathy with practical advice. By implementing meaningful changes in their daily routines, they were able to gain confidence and see a real difference in both their personal and professional life, proving that therapy can be a catalyst for tangible action.

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Navigating Difficult Transitions

Transitions—whether a breakup, career shift, or personal loss—can drain your motivation. I supported a client through a difficult life transition by using patient, gentle encouragement and thoughtful questioning. This approach helped them see their situation more clearly, regain their lost motivation, and move forward with a sense of purpose and empowerment.

Our Process

Your Journey Toward Harmony

My therapeutic work adapts to your unique story, offering a warm, non-judgmental space where every part of you—thoughts, emotions, and bodily sensations—is invited to be present. We will go beyond words to explore the relational patterns and physical cues that shape your experience, allowing us to dissolve blocks and find the roots of your difficulties.

To ensure deep and lasting change, I use an integrated behavioral approach that includes structured tasks and guided exercises for you to practice outside of our sessions. Whether you need long-term growth or a single session, I am here to guide you with kindness as you build a more authentic, free, and fulfilling life.

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Are you

Ready to Take the Next Step?

Taking the first step is often the most courageous one. If you're ready to gain clarity, understand the patterns shaping your life, and build a more empowered future, I invite you to connect. I offer a confidential, non-judgmental space to explore if my approach is the right fit for you. Let's begin the conversation.

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Special Focus

Psychosomatic Support

What makes my work truly distinct is that I don't just ask you to think about your change; I help you feel it. I deeply believe that the body has its own language, often expressing blocked emotions through symptoms like anxiety or psychosomatic conditions. To address this, I integrate the Integrated Sensate Focus model and practical behavioral tasks into our journey. This means I will often give you specific, guided exercises to practice outside of our sessions—tangible tools designed to bypass mental blocks, lower performance anxiety, and help you physically relearn how to experience intimacy and pleasure in a safe, gradual way.
Elisa Cariolato
Certified Sexologist & Intimacy Consultant
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