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Pamela Tórtola Colindres

Cultivating Connection: Integrative Care for Your Emotional and Sexual Well-being

Pamela Tórtola Colindres is a dedicated Psychologist and Clinical Sexologist committed to guiding individuals and couples toward more fulfilling and authentic lives. With a professional foundation built on empathy, structure, and evidence-based practice, she creates a compassionate sanctuary where your personal growth and relational health are the highest priority. Whether you are navigating the complexities of intimacy, seeking to improve communication with a partner, or reclaiming your sense of self through life’s transitions, Pamela provides the integrative support necessary to transform confusion into clarity and shame into empowerment.

Driven by a fascination with how we connect and a belief that education is a catalyst for change, she blends advanced clinical training with a deep understanding of the social contexts that shape our well-being. Her approach is not just about addressing challenges, but about accompanying you in the discovery of new, vibrant ways of relating to yourself and others. Step into a collaborative space where your story is heard, your needs are validated, and your journey toward emotional and sexual health is supported by expert care and genuine human connection.


Location: Madrid, Spain 

Professional Titles: Licensed Health Psychologist, Clinical Sexologist, and Couple

Therapist (Local/Spain); Integrative Sexual Health Consultant, Relational Specialist, and Therapeutic Yoga Practitioner (Worldwide).

Specializations: Integrative Couple Therapy; Sexual Health & Well-being; Women’s Sexuality & Education; Menopause Pleasure & Lifestyle Medicine; Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT); The Gottman Method; Solution-Focused Therapy; Somatic Well-being & Therapeutic Yoga.

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Your Sanctuary for Growth: A Collaborative Path to Relational Health

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Choosing to begin a therapeutic journey is a powerful commitment to your own well-being and the quality of your relationships. In our sessions, you will find a human, compassionate space where empathy and scientific structure meet to help you navigate life's most intimate challenges. Whether you are an individual seeking to reclaim your sexual confidence or a couple looking to rebuild trust and intimacy, my goal is to provide you with the evidence-based tools and the emotional safety needed to foster meaningful, lasting change. Together, we will dismantle the social constructs and personal barriers that hold you back, replacing shame or confusion with a deep sense of understanding and empowerment.

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"Empathy. Growth. Empowerment.".

The Integrative Path to Relational Health

Evidence-Based Foundations
Compassionate, Tailored Growth

My therapeutic approach is strictly integrative, combining proven psychological frameworks to meet the specific needs of each individual and couple. I draw primarily from Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Solution-Focused Therapy, and the Gottman Method to provide a structured yet flexible environment for change . By integrating these evidence-based techniques, I help clients regulate their emotions, improve communication patterns, and rebuild trust through practical tools and shared rituals of appreciation .

Beyond clinical techniques, I believe that healing is rooted in a deep understanding of the social and emotional contexts that shape our personal stories. I bring both empathy and structure to our work, ensuring that every session is a collaborative and reflective space where you feel truly seen and understood. My goal is to transform experiences of shame or confusion into moments of profound self-awareness and empowerment, allowing you to connect more authentically with yourself and your partner.

Pamela Tórtola Colindres

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Who

And How I Help

I provide a safe, integrative space for individuals and couples to navigate the complexities of intimacy, emotional connection, and personal growth. By combining evidence-based psychological frameworks with deep empathy, I empower my clients to transform confusion into clarity and rediscover a fulfilling relationship with themselves and others.

I help With

Women Navigating Menopause & Vitality

Specializing in "Pleasure in Menopause," I offer a unique program for women in peri-, menopause, and post-menopause. I integrate the six pillars of Lifestyle Medicine with pleasure-focused education to help you reconnect with your body during this transition. My goal is to transform this life stage into a period of empowerment and renewed self-discovery.

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Partners Seeking Deeper Connection

I support couples in navigating relationship transitions, rebuilding trust, and improving communication patterns. Using the Gottman Method and integrative tools, I help partners move past conflict toward a shared language of appreciation and intimacy. Whether you are facing a specific crisis or simply want to strengthen your bond, we work to create a secure emotional foundation.

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People Reclaiming Body Awareness

Drawing from my background in Therapeutic Yoga, I assist clients in bridging the gap between the mind and the body. This is particularly helpful for those experiencing physical blocks or a lack of sensation during intimacy. By incorporating mindfulness and somatic awareness, I help you develop a more present and respectful relationship with your physical self.

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Individuals Navigating Sexual Health

I help individuals address concerns such as sexual anxiety, desire discrepancies, and body image issues with sensitivity and evidence-based care. My approach helps you dismantle the social constructs and shame that may be blocking your pleasure. Together, we explore your unique needs to foster a sense of confidence and authentic sexual well-being.

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Clients Seeking Solution-Focused Growth

For those who feel stuck in specific behavioral patterns or communication loops, I utilize Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Solution-Focused Therapy. This approach is practical and goal-oriented, focusing on identifying patterns and developing actionable tools for change. It is designed for anyone looking for structured guidance to overcome immediate emotional or relational hurdles.

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The Journey Toward Meaningful Change

Embarking on therapy is a collaborative process designed to provide you with the structure, empathy, and tools necessary for personal and relational growth. Our work together follows a clear, supportive path where your goals are the priority and every step is tailored to your unique pace and history.

1. The Initial Discovery Session

Our first meeting is a dedicated space to get to know one another and explore the specific challenges or goals that bring you to therapy. We will discuss your background, current obstacles, and expectations to ensure we are aligned. This foundational step allows us to define a clear, personalized plan together, ensuring you feel heard and understood from the very start.

2. Creating a Secure Therapeutic Space

Safety and trust are the cornerstones of effective therapy. I focus on establishing a compassionate and non-judgmental environment where you—and your partner, if applicable—can openly explore your stories and needs. This human-centered approach ensures that even the most sensitive topics can be discussed with integrity and professional care.

3. Identifying and Unpacking Patterns

Once we have established our goals, we begin to identify the emotional and behavioral patterns that may be holding you back. Whether it is exploring how social constructs influence your well-being or analyzing communication loops in a relationship, we work together to bring these dynamics to light. This awareness is the first major step toward making conscious, positive changes.

4. Applying Evidence-Based Tools

As we progress, I integrate specific techniques from the Gottman Method, CBT, or Solution-Focused Therapy to provide practical solutions. You will learn to apply structured dialogues, emotional regulation strategies, or mindfulness-based practices to your daily life. These tools are designed to rebuild trust, enhance intimacy, and increase your overall confidence.
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Therapy Services

Integrative Support for Relational and Personal Transformation

Finding a path toward emotional and physical fulfillment requires a specialized approach that respects both the science of psychology and the nuances of human connection. Pamela’s services are designed to bridge the gap between where you are and where you want to be, providing an evidence-based framework to address intimacy, desire, and relational health. By blending modern therapeutic models with a compassionate, human-centered focus, these services empower you to navigate life’s transitions and interpersonal challenges with resilience and grace.

Areas of Practise

1. Integrative Couples Therapy: This service focuses on helping partners move from a state of disconnection or conflict toward a secure, vibrant bond. Utilizing the Gottman Method and Solution-Focused Therapy, Pamela assists couples in rebuilding trust and mastering effective communication. Partners learn to implement shared rituals of appreciation and structured dialogues that transform intimacy into a source of mutual strength and joy.

2. Clinical Sexology and Well-Being: Designed for individuals and couples, this area of practice addresses sexual anxiety, desire discrepancies, and body image concerns. Through evidence-based interventions and sensitive guidance, Pamela helps clients dismantle the shame and social constructs that often hinder pleasure. The goal is to foster a healthy, authentic, and confident relationship with one’s own sexuality.

3. Specialized Support for Women's Sexuality: Focusing on the unique experiences of women, particularly during life transitions like peri-menopause and menopause, this service integrates Lifestyle Medicine with pleasure-focused education. Drawing from her acclaimed work on "Pleasure in Menopause," Pamela provides a safe space to explore self-awareness and empowerment, helping women redefine vitality and intimacy during every stage of life.

4. Somatic Integration and Body Awareness: Recognizing that emotional well-being is deeply connected to physical presence, this practice area incorporates elements of Therapeutic Yoga to bridge the mind-body gap. This approach is especially beneficial for those experiencing physical blocks or a lack of sensation during intimacy. By using mindfulness-based practices, clients learn to reconnect with their physical selves, fostering a sense of peace, presence, and sensory awareness.

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