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Celina Criss Mueller

Rediscover Your Spark with Playful, Authentic Intimacy

I bring an intellectually playful, human-first approach to sexuality, believing it is a vital, life-affirming part of being human. From California to Munich, my journey has been defined by a passion for helping people clarify their desires and step into fuller versions of themselves. Whether navigating polyamory, kink, or cross-cultural relationships, I offer a safe, judgment-free space where you can breathe deeper, feel truly seen, and explore your erotic expression with warmth and humor.

Specializations: Kink & BDSM | Polyamory & Ethical Non-Monogamy | Cross-Cultural Relationships | Sex-Positive Parenting | Sexual Confidence.

Location: Munich, Germany

Worldwide Qualification: Intimacy & Sex Coach

USA Qualification (Michigan, California): Intimacy & Sex Coach

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Spark Your Curiosity and Reclaim Your Joy

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I believe that sexuality should be a source of energy, not anxiety. With a background that spans from academic research to the vibrant worlds of kink and polyamory, I offer a space where no topic is too taboo and no question is too small. My goal is to help you navigate your unique desires with "intellectual playfulness," ensuring you feel safe, seen, and empowered to explore. Whether you are opening up a relationship or simply seeking to feel more at home in your body, meaningful change starts with a conversation. Watch my video to discover how my warmth and experience can help you bring that spark back into your life.

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"Helping you feel fully at home in your own skin."

Intellectual Playfulness Meets Deep Compassion

A Human-First Approach to Erotic Well-Being
Authenticity, Research, and a Little Bit of Spice

My work is grounded in the belief that sexuality is a vital, life-affirming part of being human. I bring an "intellectually playful" energy to every session, combining rigorous research with warmth, humor, and curiosity. Whether we are navigating complex relationship structures or deep personal desires, my goal is to create a collaborative space where you can bring your whole self, breathe easier, and feel truly seen without judgment.

Celina Criss Mueller

- Intimacy & Sex Coach
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Who

I Help and How

My practice is a sanctuary for "explorers"—individuals and partners who are ready to define their own sexual landscapes and self-expression. I work with a wide spectrum of clients, from those in traditional relationships to those navigating complex alternative structures like polyamory and kink. Whether you are seeking to heal from past distress, bridge a desire gap, or simply map out new fantasies, I offer a collaborative, "human-first" environment where your unique identity is celebrated, not just tolerated.

I help with

Sex-Positive Parenting

I help parents create authentic, value-aligned conversations with their children about sex and consent. Moving beyond fear and shame, we develop toolkits for discussing boundaries, sexual orientation, and identity. This work often involves revisiting your own upbringing to ensure you are modeling positive attitudes and breaking cycles of misinformation.

I help with

Kink, BDSM & Fetish

I provide expert guidance for individuals and partners navigating the world of kink and BDSM. Whether you are an experienced player or just curious, we work on negotiating boundaries, building safety frameworks, and bridging the gap between partners with different levels of experience. My goal is to help you explore your "shadow side" in a way that feels integrated, healthy, and deeply fulfilling.

I help with

Sexual Confidence & Desire Mapping

For those feeling disconnected or "stuck," I offer support in desire mapping and sexual self-expression. We work to identify what truly turns you on, overcome shame, and build the confidence to ask for what you want. This is about moving from uncertainty to a place where you feel fully at home in your own skin.

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Polyamory & Ethical Non-Monogamy

Designing a relationship that works for everyone involved requires clear communication and strong ethical foundations. I assist clients in navigating the complexities of open relationships, "designed relationships," and polyamory. We focus on managing jealousy, establishing agreements, and strengthening the connection between all partners to ensure that your relationship structure enhances, rather than complicates, your life.

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Life Purpose and Career Alignment

Helping clients clarify their purpose and align passions with decisions that support both personal fulfillment and professional success.

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Ignite Your Curiosity and Step Into Your Fullest Self

Reclaim Your Pleasure, Purpose, and Confidence.

Your Journey to Sexual Freedom & Clarity

My sessions are entirely client-focused and driven by your unique needs and pacing. I strive to build a "friendly rapport" grounded in warmth and radical acceptance, creating a space where you feel completely free to be who you are. We combine deep, honest exploration with an "intellectually playful" energy, ensuring that even the most challenging conversations feel alive, safe, and manageable. Whether we are mapping your desires or navigating relationship distress, our time together is a partnership dedicated to your growth.

1. Collaborative Exploration

The process begins with curiosity. I will ask targeted questions to elicit information about both your immediate concerns and your deeper desires. This is not a passive process; it is an active collaboration where we dig into the "why" and "how" of your sexual landscape to uncover what you truly want to experience.

2. Deep Dives & Shadow Work

We typically focus on areas that often go unspoken: specific fantasies, communication styles, and even "shadow work" for those ready to look deeper. I support clients in finding their way back to each other after distress, providing a structured container to process difficult emotions and navigate complex sexual dynamics safely.

3. Integrated Techniques for Holistic Growth

Ongoing sessions are highly customized, drawing from an integrative toolkit to address your specific needs. We combine emotional intelligence and sexuality work with results-oriented methodologies, including Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), hypnotherapy, coaching, somatic techniques, and nervous system regulation. This flexible approach allows us to select the most effective tools for your personal growth.

4. Flexible Support Options

I offer different session structures to match the level of support you need. You can choose a standard session focused on immediate guidance, or a deeper 90-minute engagement that includes detailed session notes and ongoing email support. This ensures that our work doesn't stop when the video call ends, giving you resources to integrate what we’ve discussed into your daily life.
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Therapy Services

Tailored Support for Your Unique Sexual Landscape

My services are designed to support "explorers" of all kinds, offering a flexible structure that adapts to your specific needs and goals. Whether you opt for a standard consultation to address immediate concerns or an extended 90-minute deep dive that includes session notes and email support, I provide expert guidance for individuals, partners, and families. My practice integrates specialized knowledge in diverse relationship structures with a warm, client-driven approach to help you move from uncertainty to confident expression.

Areas of Practice

Partnership Dynamics & Repair: Supporting partners finding their way back to each other after distress, navigating cross-cultural differences, or designing ethical non-monogamous agreements.

Kink, BDSM & Fetish Exploration: Guiding individuals and partners through negotiation, safety frameworks, and the development of sexual avatars for healthy, integrated play.

Individual Growth & Shadow Work: Assisting clients in desire mapping, sexual self-expression, and "shadow work" to integrate hidden parts of the self.

Sex-Positive Parenting: Coaching parents on how to have age-appropriate, value-aligned conversations about consent, boundaries, and identity with their children.

GSRD & LGBTQ+ Support: Affirming support for Gender, Sexuality, and Relationship Diversity (GSRD), ensuring a safe space for all identities.

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